Letter to Angie 2021-01-31
Not only did you do it several times when Caroline was there, you embarrassed me by complaining in front of complete strangers, the nurses and therapists who came to help you - and this was after I promised to stay with you to be sure your recovery was going well.
I did that because I loved you. I always brought you food, even though I was struggling financially. I prepared meals for you, and kept my promise to help declutter your home. You often said I didn’t have to, but I did so because I cared about you.
You talk of Khuram’s hurt feelings, well what about mine?
You say he isn’t manipulated. Well who told him to tell me to move my car? You said it was Richard, not you.
That’s what being manipulated is all about, but for some reason you’re afraid to admit it. Is it because you’re afraid to admit to yourself that Richard’s been manipulating you as well, and playing you for a fool?
It takes courage to admit one is wrong, not that it can’t be done. The big problem is ego. Once a person can accept the fact that they’re not perfect, it becomes easier.
That’s why Christ’s message of forgiveness is so important. It’s not only about others, it’s about oneself as well.
Khuram brought my anger upon himself when he said I had to move my car. He may be your power-of-attorney, but you are the one who makes the decisions, correct?
He should have had the courage to stand up to Richard, but he didn’t. If he didn’t like what I said, it’s just too bad, and I won’t hesitate to do it again under similar circumstances.
I’m not a violent person, but I’m not a pacifist either. I’m not afraid to stand up to those who attempt to do me wrong.
And then there’s you. Instead of telling Richard to shut up, you kept saying “It’s what Richard said.” Instead of taking a stand on my behalf, you betrayed me.
You continually use the excuse of being “Bull-headed” to justify your denial. It’s not my problem if you refuse to accept what actually is happening, which is Richard’s efforts to drive us apart.
You’ve been acting lately as if you think you still mean something to me, which is true. However, with your continually refusing to deny what’s been occurring, and constantly putting the blame on me, that affection isn’t going to last.
You’re going to have to make a decision, which was brought about by Richard’s attitude.
What you or they think of me doesn’t matter, because I know who I am - but even more important, my long-time friends, of which I have many, know the type of person I am.
Richard doesn’t like me because he’s jealous. He wants to control you completely, and I was a threat to that. I was there because I loved you. He’s there because he wants to control you, have access to all your property even though he doesn’t own it, and eventually own your house and property after you’re gone.
He’s also a coward, because he’s afraid to talk to me on the phone, because I’ll stand up to his BS, something you let him get away with.
That’s the way narcissistic bullies are.
BTW, as much as I’d like to annoy Richard by moving my Chevy into the driveway, which would demonstrate to him that he’s not your boss, and that he’s not the owner of your house (both of which he already thinks he is), I’m not going to do so, because it will make you feel anxious.
Enjoy the snow
I did that because I loved you. I always brought you food, even though I was struggling financially. I prepared meals for you, and kept my promise to help declutter your home. You often said I didn’t have to, but I did so because I cared about you.
You talk of Khuram’s hurt feelings, well what about mine?
You say he isn’t manipulated. Well who told him to tell me to move my car? You said it was Richard, not you.
That’s what being manipulated is all about, but for some reason you’re afraid to admit it. Is it because you’re afraid to admit to yourself that Richard’s been manipulating you as well, and playing you for a fool?
It takes courage to admit one is wrong, not that it can’t be done. The big problem is ego. Once a person can accept the fact that they’re not perfect, it becomes easier.
That’s why Christ’s message of forgiveness is so important. It’s not only about others, it’s about oneself as well.
Khuram brought my anger upon himself when he said I had to move my car. He may be your power-of-attorney, but you are the one who makes the decisions, correct?
He should have had the courage to stand up to Richard, but he didn’t. If he didn’t like what I said, it’s just too bad, and I won’t hesitate to do it again under similar circumstances.
I’m not a violent person, but I’m not a pacifist either. I’m not afraid to stand up to those who attempt to do me wrong.
And then there’s you. Instead of telling Richard to shut up, you kept saying “It’s what Richard said.” Instead of taking a stand on my behalf, you betrayed me.
You continually use the excuse of being “Bull-headed” to justify your denial. It’s not my problem if you refuse to accept what actually is happening, which is Richard’s efforts to drive us apart.
You’ve been acting lately as if you think you still mean something to me, which is true. However, with your continually refusing to deny what’s been occurring, and constantly putting the blame on me, that affection isn’t going to last.
You’re going to have to make a decision, which was brought about by Richard’s attitude.
What you or they think of me doesn’t matter, because I know who I am - but even more important, my long-time friends, of which I have many, know the type of person I am.
Richard doesn’t like me because he’s jealous. He wants to control you completely, and I was a threat to that. I was there because I loved you. He’s there because he wants to control you, have access to all your property even though he doesn’t own it, and eventually own your house and property after you’re gone.
He’s also a coward, because he’s afraid to talk to me on the phone, because I’ll stand up to his BS, something you let him get away with.
That’s the way narcissistic bullies are.
BTW, as much as I’d like to annoy Richard by moving my Chevy into the driveway, which would demonstrate to him that he’s not your boss, and that he’s not the owner of your house (both of which he already thinks he is), I’m not going to do so, because it will make you feel anxious.
Enjoy the snow